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once saw a post on the Internet: what kind of husband and wife will live happier and longer than others?

there are different opinions below, and one of them replied: only couples who can keep their mouths under control can lead a good life.

when I think about it, I really mean it.

when you live at home, there is no reason why your teeth don't touch your tongue.

there is nothing wrong with being in a bad mood, the key is to grasp a certain degree.

it's like one person pouring water into another person's cup. No matter how much you pour into the cup, no matter how much water spills out of the cup, as long as the person holding the cup doesn't let go, the cup won't be broken.

if you want to be sweet all your life, to be a loving couple, a smart woman will never tell outsiders about her family's "private affairs", but silly women don't understand.

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Family conflicts do not talk to outsiders

often see a lot of people say that they are not happy. Do you know what happiness is?

if you are ill, someone will take care of you; if you cry, someone will comfort you; if you are wrong, someone will tolerate you. This is happiness!

it takes only sweetness for two people to become lovers, but it takes sacrifices and compromises on both sides to become lovers.

it is easier to fall in love than to get along with each other, and those vows made at the wedding will disappear in the chicken feathers in the future.

as a result, complaining, complaining and blaming have become common for many people.

as the saying goes, "every family has its own difficult classics." one of them is called the Classic of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

the disagreement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that many people shake their heads and sigh when they mention it.

an aunt in the community likes to tell the whole story with the people around her as long as she has conflicts with her mother-in-law.

she had thought that a few words of complaint was to vent her feelings, and the backlog of grievances dissipated.

the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the heart.

when she quarreled with her mother-in-law again, her mother-in-law scolded, "spend my son's money all day, and say to the outside world that it's not good and that's not good!"

it turns out that when someone embellished her words to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law was naturally furious.

as the saying goes, food can be eaten at random, words can not be said nonsense, a lot of things are caused by a few words caused a lot of contradictions.

you know, not everyone sympathizes with what happened to you, and not everyone can keep your mouth shut.

as Lu Xun said, "Human joys and sorrows are not the same. I just think they are noisy."

there is no such thing as empathy in this world, there is only self-knowledge.

the ugliness of the family should not be made public, and what the ancients said was not unreasonable.

some problems are not serious, and if they are taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives, you only need to fan the flames a little lest your family life be in chaos.

as the saying goes: good things don't go out, but bad news travels fast.

when the conflict becomes more and more serious, there will be no more peaceful days at home.

husband and wife are lifelong partners, and falling in love means managing a good life together.

only when there is more discussion and mutual understanding, can there be less gaps in family life and more laughter and happiness!

Women know how to be contented, men know how to take care of their families, this is a lifetime.

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the other party's shortcomings do not tell others

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everything is big and small, no one is perfect.

everyone will have their own shortcomings and shortcomings, two people together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be all kinds of disputes and contradictions.

because of this, husband and wife should tolerate each other even more, regardless of their advantages and disadvantages. Once they are made public, they will either be ridiculed or provoked by outsiders.

as the person who knows each other most, smart people choose to remember each other's good in their heart and each other's good in their mouth.

keep quiet about your partner's shortcomings and keep some secrets for them.

A stupid person will only keep complaining and blaming each other and saying he is wrong in front of others.

the love between Huang Lei and Sun Li in the entertainment industry is well known.

I have never heard them say bad things about each other, and some of them are full of appreciation and praise.

even if his wife cuts a chili, Huang Lei can "blow a rainbow fart": "Sister Li can also chop chili and can do it."

can excavate and appreciate the advantages of their wives from trivial life, which is also their sweet secret weapon for more than 20 years.

Tolstoy said: "Happy families are all alike, and unhappy families are unhappy in their own way."

how can a family be happy if his family quarrels and complains constantly when he is only picky and bossy about his partner?

solve the problem internally by yourself, only those who are heartless will talk about each other's shortcomings.

speaking to outsiders, it is nothing more than adding a little joke to others after they have had enough to eat and drink, and their feelings for you will only make things worse.

A happy family should be full of love, respect and tolerance.

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the economy cannot tell others

as the old saying goes, wealth is not exposed.

for couples, the amount of family income is private, and the reason why it is not exposed is that they do not want outsiders to criticize.

when the economy is well-off, it is inevitable that some troublesome people will make things worse by saying, "Men who have money will go bad" and "borrowing some money will be so stingy", which makes me panic.

the cash-strapped couple face the hypocritical sympathy of those who do good things.If there is more or less imbalance in your heart, it will not solve the hardship in your heart, and it will be known to everyone.

do not realize that rich and poor have nothing to do with others, and they still have to live their own lives.

Smart people will never casually tell others about their family income.

as the saying goes, "if you are not afraid of thieves, you are afraid that thieves will miss you".

when wealth is often revealed, people who listen to it are jealous, which will cause themselves trouble and even great disaster.

A blogger once said such a thing on Weibo:

my friend borrowed 50,000 yuan from himself and promised to pay it back in three months, but he didn't wait for the news.

urged several times in a row, the other party said: I see your circle of friends, your husband is a project, there must be no shortage of money, I do not need this money ah.

the blogger almost collapsed in the face of such an answer.

call that friend's cell phone again, hang up as soon as you call, and have been blocked again.

because of this, the blogger was criticized by her husband for a long time, saying that she was careless in making friends, and now she even lost her old capital.

in fact, it is not difficult to find that the richer you are, the more low-key you are, the more common you dress, but the more high-profile you have no money in your pockets. I wish you had all your possessions on you, and the so-called face is always much more glamorous than the inside.

as the old saying goes, "Heaven does not speak of self-elevation, and the earth does not speak of self-thickness. With reference to all things, one can see one's own shortcomings."

the days are lived by themselves, not for others. People with high EQ never show off too much.

youdao is that there is no impenetrable wall in the world. No matter how big or small a tree is, it will attract the wind.

when you wake up, you will understand what "if you say too much, you will lose"!

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the same ferry can be built in a hundred years and pillow sleep in a thousand years.

it is undoubtedly a happy thing to get married with the one you love, but this kind of happiness will fade or even disappear as the flavor of life gets stronger and stronger.

those who think that their marriage is unhappy and pour out their mouths to outsiders only add laughingstock to others.

people who are good at running marriages know how to keep their mouths shut and keep their mouths shut.

after all, there are some people who know people but not their hearts.

if you want to be a good husband and wife all your life, both sides should know how to make concessions, protect their weaknesses, understand each other, understand each other, do not deepen their conflicts, and not embarrass each other.

husband and wife are of one mind, and loess becomes gold.

there is no right or wrong in family affairs, only discord, family and everything can be prosperous!

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