May the affectionate people in the world be sweet day and night.
recently I saw a very warm story:
A man in Zhejiang prepared a truckload of snacks as a gift to celebrate his wife's 75th birthday. The car is also dotted with balloons and colorful lights, which is very romantic.
although the aunt disliked my uncle for spending money indiscriminately, she couldn't stop smiling.
Uncle said that in his heart, the old woman will always be the little girl who deserves to be spoiled.
what is a good love like?
A passage by writer Su Cen tells the true meaning of love:
"A person who loves you will always remember you in his heart. A person will love you very much and will connive at you everywhere at ordinary times. Only those who regard you as more important than themselves will spoil you. "
in the sea of life, it's not difficult to meet someone who likes you, but it's hard to find someone who holds you in the palm of your hand and takes care of you carefully all your life.
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people who spoil you,
will make you a child again
with the right person, life will be full of fun and laughter. No matter how serious a person is, he will become naive and gentle in front of his lover.
concert, Brother Xiao Chun was singing solemnly and affectionately, but when he saw Ying Caier's funny performance, he could not help showing a doting smile.
those who really love you are willing to spoil you as a child, laugh with you, watch you make trouble, and guard all your innocence and childishness.
in front of him, you don't have to worry, you don't have to pretend, you don't have to be brave, you can drop all your guard and be yourself freely.
even if he has a little temper once in a while, he will tolerate your capriciousness and even try to make you happy.
Hu Xinger once said in an interview:
"my ex and ex are great. They taught me to be a gentle woman and a mature adult, but I like the present best. He taught me to be a child."
A gentle woman will be considerate and considerate of her partner's feelings; mature adults will cleverly and wisely shoulder more responsibilities.
but rather than being gentle and mature, you would rather be a carefree child and enjoy simple happiness.
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people who spoil you,
you don't need to make any changes
my friend Ann was once a girl who was not very confident and lacked sense of security very much. when she was in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend, she wanted to break up.
my boyfriend thought for a moment and said, "Let me think about it and tell you tomorrow morning."
unexpectedly, early the next morning, an an received 10 roses and a small card from the same city.
card reads: "I can't think of 10 shortcomings you need to change. I love you the way you are."
an an was moved almost to tears.
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there is a kind of doting, called I love you for who you really are.
those who really love you are reluctant to abandon you at all. In his eyes, even the shortcomings, or small eccentricities, are also very lovely.
you don't have to change for anyone, believe that you deserve to be loved.
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people who spoil you,
will worry about you all the time
as Venus said, "if a person says he likes you, please wait until he takes care of you."
A person who really cares about you will not only say love words, but also put them into action. In getting along with the daily little things, there is concern and concern for you everywhere.
he will take the initiative to take up the responsibility of doing housework for fear of tiring you;
he will plan the itinerary in advance, so you don't have to worry about it.
he will happily accompany you to the vegetable market and change ways to cook all kinds of delicious food for you.
he will remember your casual wishes and prepare surprises for you in advance.
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apart from that, he will give you a full sense of security and give you the most real dependence.
always put your chat at the top and reply to all your messages as soon as possible. No matter how busy your work is on weekdays, I will spend more time with you.
when socializing outside, I know how to call in advance and report my whereabouts to you so as not to worry you.
when you get along with the opposite sex, you will refuse all ambiguity, keep a certain distance, and don't bother you.
in his mind, you are always the first. When you are sick, he will drop everything and accompany you to see a doctor instead of an empty "drink plenty of hot water".
if you meet a good man who cares about you and takes care of you all the time, please cherish it.
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people who spoil you,
will willingly let you
there was an issue of "lovers quarrel, who apologizes first" in "Qifa Shuo". The contestant Zang Kefei's passage is impressive.
he said that he had never won a quarrel with his girlfriend, and once he finally found a loophole in logic, and the argument fought back forcefully.
secretly delighted, his girlfriend's sentence "Why are you yelling at me" let him out of breath in an instant.
in fact, love should not only be reasonable, but also love.
it is difficult for lovers to get along.To avoid disagreement and a little awkwardness because of all kinds of trivialities of life. The one who chooses to bow his head first is simply because he loves each other more.
the man who bows his head is not fussy, perfunctory, or grumpy, but regards you as very important. Let you, coax you behind, is the love in the support.
he would rather lose the truth than lose the relationship, so he lost face, admitted his mistake and said "I'm sorry" first.
and in dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man who loves you will not be confused, making you feel aggrieved and shed tears. He will carefully balance the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and take care of all your little emotions.
because I love you enough, I will be willing to give you up and spoil you. I don't want you to be a little unhappy.
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people who spoil you,
will try to give you the best life
people who really love you will plan your future carefully and try their best to give you the best life.
the fairy couple "Xianliang", a fairy couple with a long story, gave out candy on Weibo some time ago.
Zhang Zhilin posted a group photo to celebrate his 19th wedding anniversary, joking sweetly, "the person who takes a picture with me and blushes."
later, Yuan Yongyi forwarded her husband Weibo, saying that she not only blushed, but also her heart beat faster and her palms sweaty: "19th anniversary, thank you."
between the lines, it is full of sweetness, which reminds me of a touching interview by Zhang Zhilin.
the host asked him, "if you were to die now, what would you most like to say to your lover?"
Zhang Zhilin said, "I dare not die. I am afraid that if I leave now, you and your son will not have enough money to spend." I am relieved to hear you say that even if I leave now, you and your son will spend all the money. "
people who love you will never dislike you for spending too much, but think about how to protect you from the wind and rain and give you better material security.
every boy who really grows into a man starts from being willing to work hard for the girl he loves.
he will protect you within his maximum ability, spoil you until he is old, and be willing to give you red packets and spend money for you. Look at your satisfied smile, he will feel happy and worthy from the bottom of his heart!
Please spend the rest of your life with the person who spoils you to the tip of your heart, in the midst of fighting and laughing, to explore the countless sweets in life.
if you haven't met the right person, don't worry, remember to be kind to yourself and make every day full of happiness. Loving yourself well will be the beginning of a lifetime of romance.
May you finally have a heart, white heads will not be separated from each other; may the affectionate people in the world be sweet day and night.
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